DIY Hen Party: How to Create a Luxury Hen Party with Pearls, Black Bows & Classy Vibes
Move over pink glitter and feather boa’s. This is the year of elevated elegance. we’re talking pearls, black satin bows, champagne towers and silk everything. If your Pinterest board is serving ‘clean girl bride with a touch of old money’, then this aesthetic is for you. And guess what? you can absolutely bring it to life right in the heart of Sligo with GaravogueHenStag.ie
🎀 The Look: Black & White, Luxe & Minimal
This hen party vibe is all about refined drama. You’ll want to lean into:
- Pearls – draped on tables, worn as accessories, even added to cocktails for a luxe touch.
- Black Bows – velvet or satin ribbons on napkins, glassware, and of course… tied in everyone’s hair.
- Silk & Satin – robes for the bride squad, silk tablecloths, and maybe even a custom slip dress moment for the bride-to-be.
- White Roses or Orchids – minimalist florals, arranged elegantly with loads of negative space.
- Mood Lighting – think candles, soft spotlights, and shadows that make everything feel romantic and private.
🥂 Elevated Experiences: Not Your Basic Hen Night
Forget plastic sashes and cheap fizz—this is all about high-end fun.
- Champagne Tower: Create a centrepiece moment as the bride pours the first glass.
- Luxury Cocktail Class: Think espresso martinis and champagne spritzers in crystal glasses.
- Silk PJ Brunch: Morning-after mimosas in matching silky robes, topped off with pearl eye masks.
📸 Your Instagram Moment Awaits
Capture it all with intentional photo setups:
- A black velvet backdrop with a glowing white neon sign (“The Bride”, “Sip Sip Hooray”, or “Classy Until Champagne”).
- A pearl-draped mirror corner for outfit selfies.
- Disposable cameras on the table for vintage-style snaps—trust us, it fits the aesthetic perfectly.
💅 Beauty Vibes: The Clean Girl Bride
Think glowy skin, sleek buns, soft contour, neutral nails. You don’t want anyone shining brighter than your pearls.
How to Create the White Pearl & Black Bow Aesthetic Like a Pro
Stick with:
• Black, White, Champagne, and Pearl tones
• Keep it minimalist: less is more. Think monochrome with one luxe detail per item.
DIY It:
• Buy LED tea lights or pillar candles in bulk (safer & cheaper than real flame!).
• Use black tulle or organza to drape over lights for shadowy, romantic tones.
• Pearl garlands (Amazon or craft shops) can be wrapped around tableware or hung like bunting.
Create the Look:
• Use white satin or silk table runners over a black tablecloth.
• Add pearl napkin rings (DIY with elastic string and craft-store pearls).
• Tie small black bows around cutlery or wine glass stems.
• Scatter pearl beads like confetti on the table.
The Dress Code: Clean Girl Luxe
Tell your guests:
• Satin slip dresses, black or white.
• Pearl accessories (earrings, necklaces, hair clips).
• Black bow in the hair – velvet or satin ribbon, worn with a sleek bun or low ponytail.
Signature Cocktail Bar:
• Set up a DIY bar with prosecco, elderflower, and edible pearls (from cake decorating shops).
• Use coupe glasses (TK Maxx often has cheap ones!) and tie a mini bow on the stem.
DIY Grazing Board:
• White cheeses, grapes, olives, dark chocolate, macarons, strawberries dipped in edible pearl dust—super chic and easy to prep ahead!
DIY Backdrop Ideas:
• Use a plain white or black sheet as a backdrop, then drape with strings of faux pearls and oversized black satin bows.
• Add a neon sign (“The Bride”, “Pearls & Prosecco”, “Last Fling Before the Ring”)—you can rent or order custom stickers for a cheaper option.
• Add a full-length mirror with a handwritten message in white chalk pen.
Still need more info? Check out our Pinterest board to get the look down.
Let’s make it Luxe
Ready to plan the hen party that feels more Chanel than cheap shots? Get in touch at GaravogueHenStag.ie and let’s turn that “Black Bows & Pearls” Pinterest board into a real-life luxury experience.
